Seeing an astrologer for relationship problems can help when you want perspective on recurring patterns, different temperaments or a difficult decision. A reading explains how your charts describe needs, communication and timing. It is not therapy, mediation or a quick fix, so it works best as one source of insight alongside honest conversation.

Not sure where to begin? Describe your situation in a short enquiry and we will suggest the reading that fits, or go straight to the 60-minute In-Depth Reading for a full conversation.

When an astrologer for relationship problems can help

Astrology tends to be most useful when the difficulty is about understanding rather than safety. People often come with situations like these:

The same argument keeps returning and neither of you can see why.
You feel emotionally out of step, one wanting closeness and the other space.
A major decision is approaching, such as moving in, marrying, relocating or separating.
Family expectations are pulling the relationship in different directions.
You want to understand your own patterns before starting something new.

In each case, the chart offers a neutral language. Hearing that your Moon needs quiet reassurance while your partner's Mars needs direct discussion can take the blame out of an old dispute.

When to look for other support first

Some situations call for different help, and a responsible astrologer will say so. If you feel unsafe, controlled or afraid at home, please contact someone you trust or an appropriate support service before anything else. If you are dealing with questions about separation, children or property, a solicitor is the right source of advice. If you are struggling with low mood or anxiety, speak to your GP or a qualified counsellor. Astrology can sit alongside these, but it should never replace them.

Which reading fits your situation

Karmic Keran offers several one-to-one readings online by Google Meet or WhatsApp, or as written replies. Each suits a different kind of relationship question.

One focused question

Ask Me a Question gives a written insight aligned with your horoscope. It suits a clear, single concern, such as "What is this period asking of me in my relationship?"

A wider look at your own chart

The 60-minute In-Depth Reading is designed for long-term guidance on any area of life. Relationship problems rarely exist in isolation, and an hour allows space to connect them with work, family and personal growth.

Both charts side by side

The 30-minute Compatibility Reading compares two horoscopes for strengths, challenges and ways to improve communication and avoid misunderstandings.

If your partner will not take part

A comparison needs both people's birth details, shared willingly. If your partner is not interested, you can still explore your side of things through your own chart. Our article on a compatibility reading when only one partner is interested covers this in detail.

What happens in a relationship reading

Knowing the shape of the session in advance makes it easier to relax and use the time well. Most readings follow a similar flow.

Your question first. You explain, in your own words, what is happening and what you hope to understand.
The relevant parts of the chart. The reading looks at the 7th house of partnership, Venus for affection, the Moon for emotional needs and Mars for how conflict is handled, and relates each to your situation.
Timing. Your current planetary period and major transits are considered, because they often explain why a difficulty has surfaced now rather than earlier.
Practical reflection. The conversation turns to what you might try: a different way of raising a subject, space for a particular need, or a question to ask your partner.

You are welcome to take notes, pause to ask what a term means, or steer the discussion towards what matters most to you. A good session feels like a conversation, not a lecture.

Red flags when choosing an astrologer

Relationship pain makes people vulnerable, and some services take advantage of that. Be cautious of anyone who:

Promises to bring a partner back, stop a divorce or "fix" another person's feelings.
Tells you a curse, spell or dosha is to blame and must be removed urgently.
Pushes rituals, stones or repeat sessions before explaining your chart.
Claims certainty about outcomes that depend on other people's choices.

A trustworthy reading explains what it sees, admits what it cannot know, and leaves decisions with you. It should also leave you feeling calmer and more capable than before, not more frightened or dependent. If you come away from any session anxious and convinced you need to return urgently, that is worth noticing, and it is fair to ask the astrologer plainly why.

Preparing so the session is worthwhile

A little preparation makes a real difference. Have your date, time and place of birth ready, and your partner's if they have agreed. Write down two or three questions, most important first. Note any dates that matter, such as when the difficulty began or when a decision is due. It also helps to decide beforehand what you most want to leave with: understanding, reassurance or a clearer next step. Our guide to preparing for a private astrology reading has more ideas.

Frequently asked questions

Can an astrologer solve relationship problems?

An astrologer cannot solve them for you. A reading can clarify the dynamics and timing involved, which often helps two people talk more constructively.

Should I come alone or with my partner?

Either works. Alone, the focus is your chart and choices. Together, a compatibility reading lets you both hear the same explanation at once.

How is an astrologer for relationship problems different from a counsellor?

A counsellor is trained to support you through emotional difficulty over time. An astrologer offers a symbolic perspective from your charts. Many people find the two complement each other.

Do you suggest remedies?

The emphasis is on understanding and practical communication, not on fear or rituals you feel pressured to buy.

If this sounds like the right kind of support, book an In-Depth Reading or send your question through the enquiry form. Tell us a little about what is happening, and you will be guided towards the session most likely to bring you clarity.